Would You Set Goals If You Knew You Were Dying?

If you knew you were going to die in one month, would you still set goals? How about six months? Would you still pursue your already established goals? Would there be goals that you would regret not having already achieved? Or, would there just be a list of last minute tasks and goodbyes?

One of the greatest catalysts for conquering goal achievement inertia is the emotional acknowledgment of our own mortality.

Intellectually, we already acknowledge our mortality. We are all quite aware that there is no one alive who is not going to die sooner or later, including, sadly, ourself. But, the emotional acceptance that our life might end sooner than we care to think about…well, that’s just not something …we care to think about.

Here is the beginning of an article written by Bronnie Ware, an Australian musician who worked with the dying for many years. This short article might help you answer some of the above questions.

“For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.

People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common…”

You can read the rest of Bronnie’s article HERE, on her blog, and I recommend you do.

BTW, how do you know that you aren’t going to die in one month…or two, or six, or twelve?

Answer: you don’t.

Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

PS:  If you haven’t seen the movie “The Bucket List,” get it and watch it soon. You’ll get to see how two dying old codgers played by Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman meet and journey together on a final excursion with a bucket full of goals in hand. It’s both comical and poignant.

Success Quote – Feb. 16, 2016

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“You are a product of your environment. So choose the environment that will best develop you toward your objective. Analyze your life in terms of its environment. Are the things around you helping you toward success—or are they holding you back?”
–W. Clement Stone

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Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

 

 

Success Quote – Jan. 25, 2016

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“Regardless of who you are or what you have been, you can be what you want to be.”
–W. Clement Stone

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Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

 

 

Success Quote – Jan. 6, 2016

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“Be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them.”
–W. Clement Stone

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Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

 

 

Success Quote – Nov. 4, 2014

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“The mirror will only lie, when you look at it through a mask.” 
—Anthony Liccione

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Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

 

 

Success Quote – Nov. 1, 2014

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“Personal relationships are the fertile soil from which all advancement, all success, all achievement in real life grows.” 
—Ben Stein

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Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

 

 

Goal Quote – Apr. 23, 2014

“The good news about bad news is that it puts your life in perspective very quickly. You realize that there is family, friends, and your health; nothing else really has value.”
—Neal Weiss

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Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

 

Goal Quote – Apr. 12, 2014

“No valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now.”
—Alan Watts

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Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!

Goal Quote – Mar. 9, 2014

“One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon-instead of enjoying the roses blooming outside our windows today.”
—Dale Carnegie

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Enjoy today.
Achieve today.
Tomorrow is promised to no one!